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PRINCIPLES FOR
SUCCESSFUL MENTORING
There are certain ingredients that when present in a mentoring
relationship can go a long way to guaranteeing its success.
When all these are present it helps to ensure a productive and
nurturing relationship that will benefit both parties. These
include:
Ø Strive for mutual benefits. The relationship should be
defined from the beginning as mutually beneficial. Each
participant has committed to the relationship by choice. Each
should openly share his or her goals for the relationship and
work collaboratively to help achieve them.
Ø Agree on confidentiality. Maintaining an environment of
confidentiality is a critical component in building trust between
the participants. Without a mutually understood ability to speak
freely as the situation warrants, the relationship is unlikely to
reach its full potential.
Ø Commit to honesty. The participants should be willing to
candidly share what they expect to gain from the relationship
and their vision for getting there. They should be prepared to
offer frank feedback as appropriate, even if the feedback is
critical.
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